my romance writing class

So I've taken the plunge and I'm taking an online writing class called "Romance Writing Secrets". I've decided on my subgenre...erotic romance..and I'm excited about getting started. So thought I would share a little of what I've learned, so here's my 2nd assignment:

Archetype : caring nurturer
Strength: compassion
Central flaw: hardheartedness
Values: family, faith, health
Beliefs: loving someone means heartbreak
Special skills: culinary genius

I knew from a very early age that I was meant to take care of people. In kindergarten I drew a picture of me as a nurse when I grew up. I always took care of those who were sick or hurt. I just wanted to help. My heart was happy when I was focused on other people. I grew up in church learning that serving others was one way to find happiness.
But somewhere along the way I learned the hard lesson that those you love will eventually hurt you. I would give my all to someone only to have them eventually ignore me and move on. My heart shattered in a million pieces as one by one all the people in my life left. My dad, my husband, my children; no one wanted to stay with me they all had some place better to go.
So I learned to take refuge in the kitchen. Whipping up healthy meals gave me the satisfaction of doing something good for myself. I will admit though that for a little while I turned to food as a solace. The textures and aromas fed my senses and filled the hole in my heart, for a little while.

I LOVE football

Ok, ok, those of you that know me are like "what are you talking about?!" You all know I've boycotted sports for nearly 15 years now. But the reason I stopped watching sports and the reason I have begun again are exact opposites. My old specator companion used to ignore me and was too engrossed to explain anything but my new spectator companion showers me with plenty of attention during commercials and half times as well as takes the time to explain what's happening on the field. Besides, as I've gotten older I've come to value "presence" - the act of simply being with the one you love and enjoying time together.

Ugh..I hate being sick

So this whole being sick thing is driving me crazy. One minute I am sick, next minute I'm not, then I'm sick again! This is ridiculous!! I wanna just get better and stay better. Sure I am a nurse, but they say nurses are usually the worst patients. i can totally see why...lol. So saltine crackers, diet 7-up and sugar free jello...oooh boy, my meals for the next few days. Now, if only I could sleep..sigh.

Dreams really do come true...

Wow. I used to wonder if it would really ever happen to me. Then last year I decided to confess positive words over my situation and proclaim that this would be the year my dream came true.

I changed many things besides my words and I am happy to report...he found me. My knight in shining armor has arrived.

Somedays I think I am still dreaming and for a minute I panic thinking I will wake up and he'll be gone. But then I take a deep breath and remember..."Enjoy today, don't worry about tomorrow."

I've decided to live in the now and enjoy each little thing along the way of my life's journey. And I must say it has made all the difference in the world.

I am now loved and have someone to love the way I've been dreaming for all these years. It is true..."Good things do come to those who wait."

Maybe I am a princess after all.